THE OPEN HAND

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The Open Hand

There are two distinct approaches to living life:

Open hand living

or

Clenched fist living

Our hands are an expression of our heart and mind, our inner self.

As an artist expresses the inner self . . .

As a warrior expresses the inner self . . .

As a villan expresses the inner self . . .

As a thief expresses the inner self . . .

. . . Through the hand,

So do we in our every action and re-action

To people and to life

���Think of the difference between being confronted with a clenched fist and being offered an open hand. The clenched fist signifies threat, rejection, arrogance, exclusion, refusal, anger and violence. The open hand means friendship, help, peace, sharing, communication and connection.��� (fr. Vivian Boland)

Clenched fist living contrasted with open hand living

Clenched Fist Open Hand
Threat Invitation
Hidden Revealed
Uptight Relaxed
Defensive Inquiring
Stagnation / Entropy Open System
Barrier Connection
Sees Limits Sees Possibilities
Energy Bottled-Up Energy Released
Closed Mind: knows all, opinionated, full of certainty
Open Mind: always learning, inquiring, anticipating
Closed Heart: guarded, controlled, fear Open Heart: embraces change, diversity, people
Conquers / crushes risk and the unknown Embraces the unknown and seeks new possibilities
Competition Collaboration
It���s all about ME It���s all about ALL


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